Take time to learn the difference between settling down and just plain 'ol settling.
Settling down is making the conscious choice to put down roots because you are ready to do so and have found the right person to share your life with.
Settling is making the conscious choice to put down roots and you are willing to share your life with the person whom happens to be in your life in the moment.
Settling down brings a sense of peace into your life.
Settling brings you chaos and anxiety.